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Mental Wellness and Self-Care
Practical strategies for managing stress, anxiety, and maintaining mental health
Overview
Mental wellness is the ordinary work of getting through weeks. It's the small maintenance most people don't schedule and don't think about until something starts to slip. The writing here covers the everyday territory: stress and anxiety when they won't quiet down, mindfulness practices that actually fit real lives, burnout when rest has stopped working, self-esteem when the internal story has gone harsh, and the slow work of bouncing back after a hard stretch. This is peer-support content, not clinical advice. Reading meant to help you name what you're feeling, understand what shaped it, and hear how other people have handled the same thing. Curated by the LissnUp Editorial Team from peer-reviewed sources.
Mental Wellness and Self-Care Articles
68 articles
Am I Burned Out? Signs, Symptoms, and What to Do About It
Nearly 23% of employees report feeling burned out often or always, with 84% of millennials experiencing workplace burnout. Burnout isn't just being tired—it's emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion that affects every area of your life. Learn to recognize the signs and take action before it gets worse.
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July 22, 20253 min read
Imposter Syndrome: How to Stop Feeling Like You Don't Deserve Your Success
Research shows 70% of people experience imposter syndrome at some point, with high achievers most affected. That voice saying 'I don't belong here' or 'I just got lucky' isn't protecting you—it's limiting your potential. Learn practical strategies to recognize imposter syndrome and reclaim confidence in your achievements.
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July 24, 20254 min read
Silent Burnout: The Hidden Weight We Carry
Silent burnout doesn't announce itself with breakdowns—it hides behind smiles and 'I'm fine.' Learn to recognize the quiet signs before exhaustion becomes unbearable.
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February 11, 20265 min read
How to Heal Your Nervous System: The Self-Care That Actually Works
Research shows 77% of people experience physical symptoms from chronic stress, yet traditional self-care often misses the root cause. Your nervous system—your body's alarm system—can get stuck in survival mode long after stress passes. Learn evidence-based practices that actually calm your nervous system and help you feel safe in your body again.
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August 1, 20254 min read
The Neuroscience of Burnout: How Overwork Literally Shrinks Your Brain
Working more than 55 hours per week increases stroke risk by 33% and literally shrinks brain regions responsible for memory and learning. Research reveals that chronic overwork doesn't just make you tired—it rewires your brain in ways that reduce intelligence, creativity, and decision-making ability. Discover what overwork does to your brain and evidence-based strategies to protect your cognitive health.
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July 23, 20254 min read
Burnout Begins with Silence: How to Prevent It Before It Breaks You
Burnout doesn't begin with exhaustion — it begins with silence, when you ignore your own needs for too long. Learn how to listen to the signs and protect your energy before your body forces you to stop.
LissnUp Editorial Team
April 10, 20263 min read
Am I Just Anxious or Do I Have Anxiety? How to Tell the Difference
Nearly 19% of U.S. adults experience an anxiety disorder each year, yet many don't realize the difference between normal anxious feelings and clinical anxiety. While feeling anxious before big events is normal and temporary, anxiety disorders involve persistent worry that interferes with daily life for weeks or months. Learn the key differences and when to seek professional support.
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July 27, 20253 min read
How to Deal with Everyday Anxiety: Quick Relief When You're Feeling Off
Not every anxious feeling needs a therapy session. Sometimes it's just a nervous buzz before a presentation or that weird sense of 'something's off' for no clear reason. Research shows that simple techniques like 4-4-4 breathing, movement, and basic self-care can effectively manage everyday anxiety without overwhelming interventions. Learn practical tools for those in-between moments.
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July 28, 20253 min read
Walking with Intention: How Movement Helps You Process Emotions You Can't Put Into Words
Stanford research shows that walking boosts creative thinking by 60% and reduces stress hormones by 20%. Discover how mindful walking creates space for emotional processing when talking feels too overwhelming, and why movement sometimes speaks louder than words.
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March 15, 20253 min read
Why You're Still Tired on Monday: The Rest You Need vs The Rest You Got
You rested all weekend and Monday still feels exhausting. That's because different kinds of fatigue require different kinds of rest. It's not a motivation issue — it's a mismatch between what you needed and what you got.
LissnUp Editorial Team
April 12, 20263 min read
How to Overcome Fear and Anxiety: Why Talking It Out Actually Works
40 million Americans struggle with anxiety disorders, but only 37% receive treatment. Learn why talking through fears with a non-judgmental listener can be as effective as some clinical interventions for managing anxiety.
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April 16, 20246 min read
How Trauma Affects Your Body and Mind Years Later
Research shows that 64% of adults experienced at least one adverse childhood experience, with those having 4+ ACEs facing 12 times higher risk of depression and suicide attempts. Trauma doesn't just affect your mind—it reshapes your body's stress response, immune system, and physical health for decades.
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July 22, 20254 min read
Stress vs Anxiety: How to Tell the Difference and What to Do About It
In everyday conversations, we use 'stress' and 'anxiety' interchangeably, but they're clinically distinct. Learn how to tell the difference, recognize symptoms in yourself and others, and discover the right support strategies for each condition.
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July 17, 20256 min read
Building Emotional Resilience: The Surprising Power of Simply Being Heard
Research shows that people with strong emotional resilience have 23% better stress recovery and 45% lower anxiety. Discover how feeling genuinely heard builds resilience more effectively than many traditional wellness approaches.
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June 12, 20246 min read
Gratitude as a Trainable Cognitive Process: The Neuroscience Behind Small Wins
You wait for big moments to feel grateful — but the brain responds more to small, repeated signals. Research shows consistent gratitude practices improve mood, relationships, sleep, and resilience. The key? Consistency over intensity.
LissnUp Editorial Team
April 10, 20263 min read
Self-Care Isn't a Luxury — It's Maintenance for Your Mind, Body, and Emotions
We live in a world that claps for exhaustion and calls burnout 'dedication.' But your body whispers before it screams. Don't wait for the breakdown to justify the break.
LissnUp Editorial Team
March 16, 20263 min read
How Stress Creates Back Pain: When Your Body Signals You Need to Talk
Research shows 84% of people experience back pain during high-stress periods. Learn how emotional stress manifests as physical pain and discover healthy outlets for processing stress before it impacts your body.
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April 2, 20244 min read
What to Do When Your Heart Hurts: An Emotional First Aid Guide
Research shows emotional pain activates the same brain regions as physical pain. Yet 73% of people ignore emotional wounds. Learn why emotional first aid matters and discover 5 practical tools to heal your heart with the same care you'd give a physical injury.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 18, 20254 min read
Is Working From Home Quietly Impacting Your Mental Health?
Research reveals 56% of remote workers go entire weeks without leaving home, and 25% don't speak to anyone for days. Discover the hidden mental health impacts of working from home and practical solutions including the healing power of connection.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 12, 20256 min read
How Stress Affects Your Hormones and Your Body and What You Can Do About It
Chronic stress disrupts every major hormone system in your body, from cortisol and insulin to thyroid and sex hormones. Research shows 77% of people experience physical symptoms from stress, yet most don't realize the deep hormonal impact. Learn how stress hijacks your body's chemical messengers and discover evidence-based strategies to restore hormonal balance.
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July 23, 20254 min read
Managing Everyday Anxiety: When You Need Someone to Listen, Not Fix
31% of adults experience anxiety that interferes with daily life. Discover how talking through anxious thoughts with a non-judgmental listener can reduce symptoms by up to 40% - often more effectively than trying to manage anxiety alone.
LissnUp Editorial Team
June 17, 20243 min read
Why Can't I Forget Bad Memories? The Science of Painful Memory and Healing
Research shows that negative memories are processed 5 times more intensely than positive ones, creating lasting imprints that can resurface years later. Your brain's survival system prioritizes painful experiences to protect you from future threats. Learn why this happens, how it affects your daily life, and gentle, evidence-based approaches to healing without erasing your past.
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July 25, 20254 min read
Naming an Emotion Feel it . Draw it .Let it go .
Sometimes the feeling is too big — or too vague — to put straight into words. This post explores a simple multi-step practice for naming, drawing, and reflecting on your emotions, so they become something you can actually work with rather than something that just happens to you.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 24, 20262 min read
The Spiral of Self -Trust
Self-trust isn't something you either have or you don't — it's something you build, one small kept promise at a time. This post explores how consistent, everyday actions create the behavioural evidence that makes trusting yourself feel natural rather than forced.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 18, 20262 min read
How Self-Neglect Silently Impacts Our Health, Work, and Relationships
Self-neglect doesn't always appear as a crisis. Often it's subtle — skipping meals, cutting sleep, avoiding checkups. But the impact builds up across your health, work, and relationships. Taking care of yourself isn't selfish. It's essential.
LissnUp Editorial Team
March 18, 20264 min read
How to Naturally Boost Dopamine All Day: Science-Based Daily Habits
Dopamine drives motivation, focus, and feelings of reward, but modern life often depletes it through artificial stimulation. Research shows specific daily habits can naturally optimize dopamine production throughout the day. Learn evidence-based strategies to maintain steady motivation and mood without relying on quick fixes that ultimately leave you feeling worse.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 24, 20254 min read
How Childhood Trauma Affects You as an Adult: Signs and Healing
Research shows 64% of adults experienced at least one adverse childhood experience (ACE). Adults with 4+ ACEs are 12 times more likely to develop depression, anxiety, and health issues. Learn how childhood trauma shapes your adult life and discover evidence-based paths to healing.
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July 19, 20254 min read
How Small Daily Stress Can Hurt Your Health (And What You Can Do About It)
Even minor daily stressors—traffic, emails, clutter—can quietly take a toll on your health. Here's how stress accumulates, what it does to your body, and simple habits that make a difference.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 6, 20255 min read
The RAIN Method: A Science-Backed Approach to Emotional Awareness
Developed by psychologist Tara Brach, the RAIN method — Recognize, Allow, Investigate, Nurture — combines mindfulness and self-compassion into a simple framework backed by growing evidence for reducing anxiety, depression, and emotional reactivity.
LissnUp Editorial Team
April 10, 20263 min read
How to Handle Peer Pressure: When Friends Want You to Do Things You Don't Want to Do
Research shows peer pressure continues into early adulthood, affecting our decisions far beyond teenage years. Whether it's joining activities you don't enjoy or compromising your values to fit in, learn practical strategies to stay true to yourself while maintaining healthy relationships.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 21, 20254 min read
If Your Emotions Could Talk
Emotions aren't always accurate reflections of reality — but they're almost always worth listening to. From anxiety to shame to confusion, each feeling carries a signal worth understanding. Here's what yours might be trying to say.
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July 22, 20262 min read
Anxiety vs Stress: The Subtle Difference That Defines Our Inner Balance
We often use 'stress' and 'anxiety' interchangeably, but they're fundamentally different. Learning to tell them apart can transform how you manage your emotional wellbeing.
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February 14, 20265 min read
What Emotional Maturity Actually Looks Like in Everyday Life
Emotional maturity isn't about being calm all the time or never feeling overwhelmed. It's about awareness, accountability, and growth — especially when things are uncomfortable.
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April 11, 20263 min read
Take Nothing Personally: The Healthiest Career and Life Habit
Not every short reply is disrespect. Not every disagreement is an attack. Emotional intelligence is the ability to pause and ask: is this about my growth or someone else's frustration?
LissnUp Editorial Team
March 16, 20263 min read
Why It's So Hard to Say I'm Not Okay
Saying 'I'm not okay' can be one of the hardest things to admit—yet it's also one of the most powerful steps toward healing. Here's why it's difficult and why it matters.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 6, 20254 min read
Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs: A Practical Mental Health Check-In
We all know Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs — but how often do we actually use it? Before self-optimising, check in: Have I eaten? Have I rested? Do I feel safe? Do I feel connected?
LissnUp Editorial Team
April 12, 20263 min read
Depression Wears Many Faces: Signs We Often Miss
Depression isn't always tears and visible sadness. It can hide behind smiles, exhaustion, and silence. These are the signs we often miss — and why awareness, and a single conversation, can change everything.
LissnUp Editorial Team
March 18, 20263 min read
Digital Detox and Your Brain: Why It Matters More Than Ever
Average screen time has reached 7 hours daily, rewiring our brains for constant stimulation. Research shows digital overload reduces focus by 40% and increases anxiety by 70%. Discover what constant connectivity does to your brain and why strategic digital detoxing can restore mental clarity, improve sleep, and rebuild your ability to think deeply.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 22, 20254 min read
How to Support Aging Parents Emotionally: When Listening Matters More Than Solutions
Your aging parent just shared a fear about losing independence, and your first instinct is to solve it. But what if what they really need is someone who will simply listen and understand? Learn why genuine listening creates deeper connection than any solution ever could.
LissnUp Editorial Team
May 13, 20247 min read
How to Support a Loved One with Mental Health Challenges: The Power of Just Listening
68% of people don't know how to help when someone they care about struggles with mental health. Learn evidence-based ways to provide meaningful support through compassionate listening—without trying to fix or solve everything.
LissnUp Editorial Team
February 28, 20256 min read
Is Social Media Ruining Your Self-Esteem? The Psychology Behind the Scroll
Research shows teens spending 3+ hours daily on social media face increased risk of mental health problems, especially girls aged 10-14. Every like triggers dopamine, creating addictive scrolling patterns that fuel comparison and self-doubt. Learn how social platforms manipulate your psychology and what you can do about it.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 22, 20254 min read
How to Support Someone with Autism or ADHD: What Family and Friends Need to Know
1 in 31 children is diagnosed with autism, and nearly 10% have ADHD. Many family members feel helpless when supporting their loved ones. Learn practical, evidence-based ways to help someone with autism or ADHD thrive at home and in relationships.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 13, 20256 min read
Can Listening Really Heal? The Power of Feeling Safe to Share
Being truly heard can reduce anxiety, support trauma recovery, and create emotional safety. Learn how empathetic listening can be a powerful force for healing.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 6, 20255 min read
The False Empathy Problem: How AI Is Changing What We Expect from Real People
AI chatbots respond instantly, never interrupt, and provide perfect empathy on demand. Research shows 40% of young adults now prefer AI conversations over human ones. But this artificial emotional perfection is quietly reshaping our expectations of real relationships—and the consequences may be more significant than we realize.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 23, 20254 min read
What to Do When Someone Won't Let You Explain: How to Be Heard
Being constantly cut off or talked over can make you question if your voice matters. Research shows people feel less heard when others dominate conversations. Learn practical strategies to assert yourself, demand respect, and create space for your truth to be heard.
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July 14, 20256 min read
Motivation vs Discipline: Why Consistency Wins When Inspiration Fades
Motivation helps you start, but discipline helps you continue. On days when inspiration feels distant, don't judge yourself—just take the next small step. Success isn't built on how inspired you feel, it's built on how committed you remain.
LissnUp Editorial Team
March 17, 20264 min read
Why Laughter Is the Best Free Therapy: The Science Behind Healing Through Humor
Research shows that 15 minutes of laughter provides the same cardiovascular benefits as 30 minutes of exercise, while releasing endorphins and reducing cortisol by up to 39%. In a world where therapy waitlists are long and stress is chronic, laughter offers immediate, accessible healing that costs nothing but transforms everything—from your brain chemistry to your heart health.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 26, 20254 min read
Trauma Recovery The Watermelon Technique
Healing from trauma isn't measured by how openly you talk about it. The Watermelon Technique offers a gentle metaphor for understanding the different layers of your story — and why you get to decide who earns access to each one.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 21, 20262 min read
Be Yourself: The Right People Will Love You
Somewhere along the way, many of us learned to shrink — to soften our opinions and adjust our personalities just to feel accepted. But real connection comes from being seen fully, honestly, unapologetically.
LissnUp Editorial Team
March 21, 20262 min read
When Telling Your Parents Feels Harder: Finding Your Voice with Family
The fear of disappointing people you love most can make sharing important decisions feel overwhelming. Research shows family communication becomes increasingly difficult during major life transitions. Learn how to have honest conversations with your parents about decisions that matter to you.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 15, 20256 min read
The Science of Happiness: Dopamine, Serotonin, Oxytocin & Endorphins
Happiness isn't one emotion — it's a balance of progress, calm, connection, and release. And it's built in the small choices you make every day through four key brain chemicals.
LissnUp Editorial Team
March 22, 20263 min read
The Power of Saying No: A Skill We Don't Talk About Enough
Saying no is not resistance—it's responsibility. It protects your capacity, clarifies your priorities, and builds emotional maturity. You don't rise by being everywhere. You rise by being fully present where you're meant to be.
LissnUp Editorial Team
March 18, 20263 min read
Empathy: The Heart of Every Life Skill
We teach communication, leadership, and problem solving—but before all of that comes empathy. Without it, skills become mechanical. With it, they become meaningful.
LissnUp Editorial Team
March 16, 20263 min read
Listening Beyond Words: How Body Language Builds Trust and Connection
Most people think listening is about waiting for your turn to talk. But the most powerful form of listening often happens before you say anything at all. Learn how your body language creates emotional safety and builds deeper trust in every conversation.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 11, 20253 min read
What Teens Wish Adults Knew About Mental Health
Teens face real mental health challenges that are often dismissed or misunderstood by adults. Here's what they wish adults truly knew about emotional struggles, support, and being heard.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 6, 20255 min read
The People Around You Shape the Mind Inside You
Relationships influence our inner world more than we realize. Discover how healthy or unhealthy dynamics affect your mental health—and how to choose connection that heals.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 6, 20255 min read
The Glorification of Mental Illness: A Harmful Trend
Social media has normalized romanticizing depression and anxiety through memes and influencer content. Research shows this glorification discourages 67% of young people from seeking professional help. Learn why treating mental illness as an aesthetic hurts real recovery and how to recognize genuine support vs. harmful trends.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 22, 20254 min read
Learning to Open Up
Opening up emotionally takes practice—but it’s a skill anyone can build. Learn how to take small steps toward vulnerability and emotional connection.
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July 6, 20254 min read
The Quiet Pain of Being Unheard: When Silence Becomes Self-Protection
Being unheard doesn't happen in one moment. It happens slowly — when your feelings are brushed aside, your vulnerability met with distraction, and your voice learns to shrink. But your emotions are not too heavy. They've just been waiting for someone who truly listens.
LissnUp Editorial Team
April 10, 20264 min read
Why Human Connection Still Matters: What AI Can't Replace in Mental Health Support
In a world where AI can mimic empathy and hold conversations, research shows human connection remains the foundation of therapeutic efficacy. Discover why authentic emotional support requires the irreplaceable warmth of being truly seen by another person.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 16, 20256 min read
Breaking Senior Loneliness: How Real Conversations Can Transform Lives
43% of seniors experience chronic loneliness, affecting their health as much as smoking 15 cigarettes daily. Discover how genuine conversations and emotional connection can combat isolation and improve wellbeing for aging adults.
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January 7, 20256 min read
Say It Out Loud: Why Opening Up About Your Feelings Matters
Sharing your emotions builds confidence, deepens connection, and creates space for healing. Here's why opening up to someone who listens can change everything.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 6, 20254 min read
Why You Act the Way You Do in Relationships: Understanding Attachment Styles
Ever wonder why some people cling while others pull away in relationships? Your attachment style, formed in early childhood, shapes every relationship you have. Learn the 4 attachment styles and discover how understanding yours can transform your connections with others.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 20, 20254 min read
When Someone Opens Up, Here’s What Not to Say
Empathy matters most when someone shares something vulnerable. Here's what not to say—and what to say instead—to help them feel supported, not dismissed.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 6, 20254 min read
7 Therapist-Inspired Listening Habits That Build Real Human Connection
Learn 7 practical listening habits inspired by therapy that can deepen relationships, build trust, and make others feel truly heard and safe.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 6, 20255 min read
Listen to Understand: Why Being Heard Changes Everything
Not everyone who is quiet has nothing to say. Not everyone who talks a lot feels heard. The way we speak matters — but the way we listen matters even more.
LissnUp Editorial Team
March 26, 20263 min read
The Power of Empathetic Listening
Empathetic listening is more than a communication tool—it's a healing force that helps people feel seen, safe, and understood. Learn how and why it works.
LissnUp Editorial Team
July 6, 20254 min read
Frequently Asked Questions
What counts as mental wellness — do I need to be diagnosed with something?
No. Mental wellness is about the everyday work of managing stress, staying connected to yourself, and not letting hard weeks pile up unspoken. You don't need a diagnosis to benefit from peer-support reading or from talking things through with a trained listener. Mental wellness content is for anyone who wants to be more intentional about their emotional life.
Is LissnUp a replacement for therapy or medication?
No. LissnUp is peer-support, not clinical care. Our trained listeners don't diagnose, prescribe, or treat mental-health conditions. If you're seeing a therapist or taking medication, LissnUp works alongside that — many readers use it for support between sessions or on days when their clinician isn't available. It doesn't replace clinical care.
How do I know if what I'm feeling is normal stress or something more?
Stress that comes with a specific pressure and eases when the pressure eases is usually within normal range. Stress that persists after the trigger is gone, disrupts sleep or appetite for weeks, or leaves you unable to function, is worth talking to a clinician about. LissnUp can be a low-friction place to think out loud about what you're noticing before deciding what to do.
Can talking to a listener actually help with anxiety?
Being heard has a measurable calming effect on the nervous system — that's why so much of anxiety research emphasizes social connection. A trained LissnUp listener isn't a treatment for an anxiety disorder, but a 15-minute session of anonymous, judgment-free listening can help take the edge off a hard moment. It's peer-support, not clinical care.
What if I don't know what to say when I book a session?
You don't need to prepare anything or know where to start. Trained LissnUp listeners are used to sessions that begin with 'I don't know' or 'nothing in particular.' You can talk about your day, a specific worry, a feeling you can't name, or nothing at all. There's no agenda, no intake form, and no wrong way to use the time.
What if I'm in a mental-health crisis?
LissnUp is not a crisis service. If you're thinking about harming yourself, in immediate danger, or in acute psychiatric distress, please contact 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988) or Crisis Text Line (text HOME to 741741). These lines are staffed 24/7 by trained crisis responders, which is what those situations need.
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